The culture of meals in China

It is well known that China has a long time history, which brings us lots of food and culture related to food. Maybe, you can not think that eating is a serious activity, but actually in Chinese's eye there are many rules that you should follow in the dinning table.

Chinese food culture is more than 2,000 years. Yes, that long! According to historical records, 2500 years age, a ruler of a small state in China held a big event to celebrate a victory of a war. Of course, a big meal was necessary. He had a special product---a kind of soup cooked by his Personal Executive Chef. It was so yummy that no one had it would say bad words about the soup any more. Because it was a big event. He invited everyone contributed to victory to have his special soup. However, since everyone wants to try its taste, there were too many people to drink soup. One of the people did not get the soup in the end. In Chinese culture, people with the top position should eat firstly and the people with lowest position should eat lastly. The person who did not get the soup became so angry, since he thought he was treated with prejudice. He went to the bar, had some drinks and told the people in the bar that one day he would destroy this state. Finally, he really did it. He became an advisor of other state and destroy this "uneven" state by him. 

Chinese also have some interesting things which even can not be found in wikipedia. For example, maybe Chinese firstly invented bankruptcy protection in the world. Amazing? It's called "Big Piece Meat Meal"(I have not idea how to translate it). You may ask what relationship is between bankruptcy and meal. Don't worry. It is easy to understand. When a family of farmers in a small village is so poor that they can not meet their liability in more than 100 years. Then, when a highly respected person of the village sees their situation, the respected one may give them an idea:"Big Piece Meat Meal". The respected one invites all the family's creditors to the poor family's house. They kill a fat pig to make a "Big Piece Meat Meal"---big pieces of pork. The respected person usually does a speech before the meal. He will say :"As you can see, he is too poor to pay back your money. I, as a guarantee, hold this event. After this meal, you can take whatever you want in this house, but should follow two rules. One, do not destroy the house. Two, after taking the things you want, you have no debtorcreditor relationship with this family." Once creditors started eating, it gives the meaning that they agree with these rules and will no longer ask this poor family to pay back. As a cost, the poor family will consider to be the lowest level in the small village for a long time. How long it is? I have no idea. But I was told that if a person have a "Big Piece Meat Meal", his great great grandson, maybe a rich man, has no rights to come to others' wedding, if not be invited, in this village. 

Chinese Internet culture --- celebration for Singles Day

Do you know there is an "important" festival for young Chinese (mainlanders) this week? Even an expert of Chinese could not give the right answer. Because it is a new festival and only Chinese---- a part of Chinese celebrate it. But it sounds so "international" that I used to think American also celebrate it. It is on the 11th of Nov, Singles Day or Bachelors Day. The reason that 11.11 is the Singles Day is that 1 means single and there are a few of singles on the number of date which is the date with the most single lines of whole year. Moreover, bachelors also mean single lines or tubes in Chinese. Therefore, people use 11.11 as a represent of singles.

From its name, you can easily catch the main point of this festival, a day for Bachelors. However, I have to say that I have not figure out what is real meaning of the festival. From the Wikipedia, I found this festival started from 1990s, by 4 roommates (singles) in a university having a big party for themselves on 11.11. However, these beginners did not make a clear definition of this festival, so the meaning of this festival is various from person to person in China.

China is a developing countries. "Developing" means everything in China is changing over time, especially people's thoughts. The people with old ideas, like some parents, assume that people should get married as soon as possible. They always "fly around" young people who are simple and said something like:"Where, when could I see my grandchild?" or "To be a single one, or not? It is a command!" Their words to the younger without boyfriends or girlfriends,"Are you going to celebrating the Singles Day, this year?" is more like a kind of "irony," which means,"You are still a bachelor this year!" (Chinese talking wisdom)

To some singles, Singles Day is just their Black Friday. The words from relatives becomes nails to crucify them on the cross named "BACHELORS." As a result, some people choose 11.10, the day before Singles Day, to profess their hiding loves, just because they do not want to be singles on Singles Day. Some other people hold some parties for single boys and girls on Singles Day (They call the parties "Celebrating Singles Day") and some people may just come for trying their luck to avoid celebrating this festival next year.

However, there are still some people with different new ideas about this festival. Just like me, I am a single one, but I do not feel any uncomfortable to be a single. I even feel free, since I do not have to lift the packages, do not have to call someone at least once a day, and I do not have to be worried if I do not follow the rules setting by girls. (If you really love Chinese girls, be careful. They would be angry about you, maybe just due to one missing phone call). In my mind, Singles Day is a day to get-together with fellows and have fun to claim our freedom. By the way, there are still a group of people called FFF(Fire, Fire, Fire) on the Internet to celebrate this festival by a different way. In their eyes, the couples always throw flashbomb like the behavior of kissing in public. Therefore, once a couple posts their loves on online. They will just follow by "Fire," and some of the controllers of BBS may just blocks the couples to make this world "clean."

FFF

Unlike traditional festivals, the development of Singles Day is mainly due to new media----the Internet. When single ones make complaints about life, he or she may firstly post it online. Ma Yun, the CEO of Taobao, the biggest shopping platform online in China, saw the big market of Singles Day. He decided to use this new festival. He told the sellers on Taobao to have a 50% discount on some of their goods on Nov. 11th for 24 hours. He said that since we are all ones, not twos, why not enjoy shopping the goods with only one second discount. He is very smart, his decision lead to the photos on the right. There are so many packages shipping after Nov. 11th that people have to walk in the "sea" of package. One of his success is that he clearly saw the differences between traditional festivals and this new festival. For traditional culture, Chinese usually have a big meal with all their family members at traditional festival, so people do not have enough time to shop online. Singles Day is a festival only celebrate by youngsters online. Singes day is just a excuse to attract customers.

I feel so strange why Americans do not have any festivals for singles. There are so many singles on earth. They are a huge power of the world. In addition, I predict that 20 years later, most of the people in the world will accept this festival and maybe you and your children could have a fierce argument about how to celebrate this festival, because of the effect of the globalization.  

THINKING TOO MUCH----- I really do not like this

Why should people always think too much? Because the only difference between the people and animals is that people can think?

Ok, guys. I just want to complain about our essay--- it is so much, yes it tells me to think so much and I have to admit “I real dislike it!” Let me give you an example which is quite similar with this situation. Here is a question in the Chinese exam in China about reading:” why writer use the color “blue” to descript the curtain? “My answer may be due to the bad mood of the author at that time. Here is the “true” answer of the question: “The blue represent the melancholy. The writer used blue to express his dissatisfaction with the situation and helplessness since he cannot do anything to change it…..” However, the writer said that the only reason it was “blue” is that the curtain in his house is truly blue! There is not so many reason for the thing existing. Why Venus does not have arms? Researchers and artists have done many study on it and many of them have claimed that the reason Venus is beautiful is because it make disability become more beautiful. However, archaeologist found out Venus used to have her arms and they are just be destroyed. In my mind, the artists who always praise idea of Venus’s with no arms and even write millions of word to do researches on it are just thinking too much. The beauty of Venus always exists and will not disappear no matter she had arms or not. They just focuses too much on the “arms” and forget about her true beauty.

Same things happened on Christians and Darwin. Darwin claimed his theory of evolution and Christians became angry----“it is a kind of Denial of God!!!” As a result, there was great argument about the theory of evolution. In my mind, they just think too much. Darwin was fighting for his truth and Christians were fighting for God. If finally the theory of evolution is proved to be real, what will the Christians do? Do nothing changed. If in their mind the theory and God are all existing, then only thing can be proved is that this theory is created by the God, since God creates everything and it should include this theory. In the end, nothing will change. God is always there and will not be affected by Darwin. They just think too much.

Example from our own life is also easy to find. A girl toughing a boy’s hand accidently makes the boy think too much. A bad mood of the boss will make the employees think too much. A comment about China from CNN will make Chinese government think too much.

Let’s talk about this homework. A post ad with around 2,000words? What? What can we say? We are not the creators of those ad, what can we do? Just think too much. We can only use our imagination to make up some lie which is even unrelated. Maybe when we ask the creator of one ad about the meaning of the ad, he may just say because it is beautiful. YES. Just some kinds of feeling and inspiration creates many interesting things. There is not so much reason. These are no explanation of our lives and death. The universe is not built for a reason. We are just thinking too much and want to explain everything. Stop it. Humans do not have the right to definite everything and understand everything. If we do not think too much what will happen? Will we become common animals? No. Nothing will change. So, keep it and let it be.

What am I talking about? I am just thinking too much.

Fall

what is live? what is dead?

what is leaving? what is coming?

The white on the ground. The red in the sky.

The hot is leaving. The cool is coming.